Remember that move I was working on--the one where I fall on my back? I got a blonde in tight jeans to lay down on the floor next to me. This was crazy.
Sitting in with us is Jerry Zaferatos, the owner of Calacino's. He's been playing for only two years and he handled this particular assignment brilliantly, considering how new he is at this game. He's purchased a lot of my videos and tabs, and he puts in four 30-minute practice sessions a day. He's written out a list of about 25 of my lessons; he cycles through them daily. He just might be my greatest success story.
Aha, shakeylee, you've asked a good question. The truth is, although I'm quite comfortable with my own sexuality, I'm a happily married man. I'm not a player. But working the blues moment sometimes requires that you step out there and fuse with the moment--and with the female who happens to occupy the moment you're walking into. Or falling down into.
I think I stepped back from that moment, even as I somehow managed to get (slightly) crazy enough to create it. I stepped back. You can see it happen. It wasn't really fair to the girl (as it were). So I walked around, did more stuff, and then approached her again and ended the whole mating dance by actually clasping her to me.